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Rep. Renée Kosel: Same Sex Marriage Bill is Hot Topic in the House

The bill to legalize same sex marriage has stirred a debate among legislators on both sides of the aisle.

While only one Senate Republican voted in favor of the same sex marriage bill that gained approval of the Illinois Senate, Rep. Renée Kosel, R-New Lenox, foresees significant debate in the House of Representatives.      

"It's a bipartisan issue. I'm not supporting it," she said, but the bill has advocates on both sides of the aisle. "I haven't done a head count, but it's close," said Kosel, who represents the  37th District, serving all or portions of New Lenox, Mokena, Frankfort, Tinley Park and Orland Park.  

Personally, Kosel said the bill runs counter to her faith. At the same time, what concerns her is how the bill would affect religious organizations. The legislation becomes problematic in regard to the religious liberty of church organizations. There are questions about the bill's potential to infringe on the rights of organizations' basic beliefs by refusing protections that limits property use policies.

Speaking of the issue of religious liberties, the sole Republican to vote in favor of the bill on Feb. 14, Bloomington's Sen. James Barickman, addressed the matter in story in the Pantagraph. "The language in the amendment preserves those religious liberties that are so important to so many people.”

Sen. Michael Hastings, an Orland Hills-based Democrat whose 19th legislative district stretches from New Lenox to Matteson, voted in favor of the bill.

Hastings was one of 34 senators in a bipartisan vote to advance Senate Bill 10 to the Illinois House – a bill that redefines the state’s definition of marriage.

“This is a controversial issue that I did not take lightly,” Hastings said. “But after speaking with constituents and community leaders, it was clear that a majority supports marriage equality.”

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laura February 22, 2013 at 03:28 pm
@ J. Ann: Your arrogance is laughable, especially if you truly were raised under and practice the tenets of the bible! Please spare us all your comedy routine: MANY people are well-inculcated (I can explain the word to you, if needs be) and indoctrinated into religion; many do not bear the malice and smug, condescending attitude toward others that you so clearly do! You truly believe you are superior and brag about a personal "relationship" with religion or god. Hmmm, I recall that pridefulness qualifies as a sin, is it not? Perhaps consider a nice, restful, relaxing weekend retreat to re-examine your sinful ways! Ha... your problem would be that you could nbever recognize your shortcomings if Jesus himself rose from the dead and smacked you in the face with them! Have a nice life; you'll need it before your He**fire. (Wait, did I really steal that line from you?)
J. Ann February 22, 2013 at 04:01 pm
I definitely realize there are certain people on here who are hate-baiters, and I for one am not going to waste my time to get dragged into that. They are foaming at the mouth just hoping and waiting for a moment to say "ah-hah", you're such a hypocrite", etc. Not going that way ladies, ok? All you care for is vomiting up your own twisted opinions, and with the utmost rudeness. That proves nothing except you are self-centered, proud and rude. If you could only be courteous, we could reason, but as it is,m there is no reasoning with you. Once upon a time, in my younger years, I thought and reacted just like you. I thought I had all the answers, and wasn't afraid to boldly express it. I got it all from the junk I was putting into my mind daily---liberal movies, TV, music, etc. It takes a true revolution in your thinking to come to desire for and eventually see the Truth, which is in Jesus Christ, and His revelations in the Bible. I realize some true Christians are pro-choice and pro-gay marriage, only because I know Jesus has amazing grace for all of us. But I pray you will be supernaturally led to the full Truth as I was 25+ years ago. Then you can really represent Him well. Proverbs 22:10 says "Throw out the mocker, and fighting goes, too. Quarrels and insults will disappear."
J. Ann February 22, 2013 at 04:07 pm
I stand by my original comment, way up above, which was to simply state that I support Renee Kosels right to have a faith filled conviction---and to mention it, for Pete's sake, without being vilified as terrible and needing to "get over herself". Also, there is no such thing as "separation of church and state"; it's a lie. Our founding father's were wise and found it important to keep the state out of the church---I said that and I stand by it. THE END.
laura February 22, 2013 at 06:34 pm
@J.Ann: Truly, I have absolutely NO interest in pursuing what you so arrogantly call a personal "relationship" with some distorted version of religion that you assume makes your specious, outmoded deliusional arguments palatable while they simultaneously hamstringing others' constitutional rights. So please DO bite your prideful tongue; we'd all love the ensuing quiet as we go on with our lives in peace and without the harmful bigotry you espouse.
Ann Piasecki (Editor) February 22, 2013 at 07:00 pm
Hi Folks. Some of the comments coming in are serious attacks against individuals. Please keep it civil.
Fatty Arbuckle's Champaign Bottle February 22, 2013 at 10:40 pm
Good catch. Didnt get it at first but realized the spelling is different. That makes me look as stupid as my comments. I will correct it. Thanks, from Mr. Arbuckle.
Tinley Reader February 23, 2013 at 03:09 am
If we change the definition of marriage as being only between a man and woman to include same sex marriage. Then what if someone is bisexual then they be permitted under the law to marry both their male and female partner? If not would it be discrimination?
Chauncy February 23, 2013 at 12:40 pm
A big issue that I have not seen discussed here yet is how this will play out as more states allow same sex marriage, but we do not universally recognize that marriage as a country. If you're married in California, but then move to Illinois - how will that affect your family health insurance? How does it affect property ownership in general? Having something as defining as "married or not" change as you change state boundaries will cause legal headaches.
Chauncy February 23, 2013 at 12:46 pm
As far as the religion side goes, I would think you could direct your venom at adulterers and the lifelong bachelors before attacking two people who are hoping to be married and become monogamous. JFK - the great Catholic leader of our country must not have read the same Bible that you did, because he broke that adultery commandment almost every day from what I understand. If you're worried about broken homes, start there.
Chauncy February 23, 2013 at 12:49 pm
But I will say that the Catholic Church got it right by denying women a voice. They can't hold meaningful positions in the church heirarchy - pope bishop, cardinal - even priests. Why did we decide to let them vote in our country. If they couldn't vote they surely couldn't hold public office, and we wouldn't have to worry about Renee Kosel.
Tamarack February 23, 2013 at 02:33 pm
Well, if bigamy was legal for straight people then yes, it would be discriminatory. But it's not so what on earth is your point? LOL.
DA KINGFISH HMMM UMM February 23, 2013 at 02:57 pm
Hey ah...looky here ya all. will dis have a any effects on a inter racial marriages?
Tinley Reader February 23, 2013 at 03:52 pm
Rep.Renee Kosel's views on Same Sex Marriage were known prior to re-election. Rep Kosel has won re-election obviously since she won based on her views she is the
representing the majority in her district or she would have been voted out of office.
Fatty Arbuckle's Champaign Bottle February 23, 2013 at 06:40 pm
As stated days ago...corrected spelling even....You keep representing your constituents Renee, that is what you were elected to do. Its New Lenox not Wrigleyville. Im positive that your vote directly reflects what the majority of who you represent wishes. And that my friends is how democracy works.
New Lenox Mom February 23, 2013 at 07:23 pm
Whatever her views are, are still her opinion, your personal beliefs and views are not supposed to translate into laws that push that belief and agenda. When they do, that's when you get voted out. Same sex marriage wasn't on the agenda in this state when she got elected...and lucky for those that believe in equality for ALL, her views are in the minority in this state.
Chauncy February 23, 2013 at 09:50 pm
Where you're wrong Tinley Reader is in assuming that people are voting for her solely because of her views on same sex marriage. Likewise, I may like Obama's view on same sex marriage more than Romney's, but I may still vote for Romney. 90% of her voter base may be against her position on this one issue, but might for her because her opponent is even more incompetent, for example.
This is an issue that will eventually be accepted by the vast majority of people in the U.S. - some (religious) people just take longer to get onboard. Just like some people took longer to grant blacks the same rights as whites, and for women to be allowed to vote. Some day gays won't be discriminated against either. It will take longer to accept that in the red states, and apparently Frankfort - but I'll say in ten years the majority of states will have made it legal.
Tinley Reader February 23, 2013 at 10:50 pm
Rep Kosel's views on all issues affecting this election were known by the people of her district. They were reported by the newspapers, radio, and mailers. If her stance on Same Sex Marriage had such a negative impact in her district then why was she re-elected? The people of her district must have been O.K. with her stance on same sex marriage because that was not a hot botton that took her out of office. Even though and we were well aware this was going to come up for a vote to change the law.
Karen February 23, 2013 at 11:39 pm
Remember back in the 60's during the civil rights movement when so called Christians protested it was infringing their religious beliefs and rights? You got over that, you'll get over this. Why? Because it has nothing to do with you or your beliefs. People are using their religion to support hate and deny humans civil rights.
laura February 24, 2013 at 03:53 am
Actually, Eric, yes I can recommend some very good, qualified therapists in the Orland area who can assess you and have their MDs prescribe appropriate medicine. Please let me know if you do, indeed, need those recs. No shame in admitting your could use some help.
laura February 24, 2013 at 04:38 am
Too bad J. Ann that you sorely lack proper historical facts. Again, the institution of a wall between church and state was intended to keep the CHURCH out of the STATE. Perhaps consider boning up on your fact before making fallacious, unsupported assertions. Second, your mistake is assuming that all people believe in Jesus or even in your version of religion. That assumption would be narrow-minded at best. Perhaps consider travelling abroad to experience something other that your little sheltered Christian corner of the universe.
Lori Sparkles Crapes February 24, 2013 at 05:25 am
Laura, I cried my way though Shindler's List again tonight...I pray to Jesus that I am always brought to tears when watching it. How's that for irony?
Kept thinking about this thread and how so many people are still against anyone who thinks or believes differently than they do. Your God, my God, his God, her God, no God....does it really matter? All that matters is the respect for ALL people, not just the ones you "think" your God wants you to respect...Oy vey! ;-)
Mike Dees February 24, 2013 at 05:31 am
Fatty Arbuckle's Champagne Bottle - English please. Interestingly enough you didn't refute what I said.
Mike Dees February 24, 2013 at 05:35 am
Fatty Arbuckle's Champagne Bottle - You are smart enough to know when you're being called out though. Kudos.
Mike Dees February 24, 2013 at 05:50 am
The number of participants in a marriage would remain the same in this bill - two. What would change is the requirement that the participants be of the opposite sex.
Terry February 24, 2013 at 02:19 pm
Laura
I bet no one has had sex with you in years.
Ann Piasecki (Editor) February 24, 2013 at 02:32 pm
Hi Folks, Please keep in mind that this is not the place for personal attacks. They won't go up.
laura February 24, 2013 at 06:54 pm
@ Lori C.: Exactly what would be ironic about praying to Jesus for the Jews and many others that the Nazis tried to exterminate? I see nothing ironic about that. Don't make the mistaken assumption that Jews don't believe Jesus existed or was a good person. Jews generally do not believe Jesus was the Messiah. So, please enlighten me: where is the irony in praying to Jesus about a horrid act against humanity?
Mike Dees February 24, 2013 at 07:55 pm
Oh, wow. Your god doesn't sound very pleasant. I hope there isn't opposition, a devil or something, in the equation. How would you tell them apart?
Lori Sparkles Crapes February 24, 2013 at 09:52 pm
WOW Laura did you get up on the wrong side of the bed or what? You yourself said Jews generally do not believe Jesus was the Messiah.The irony is, I'm praying to what I believe to be the Messiah. You don't think it's a little ironic that when a Christian prays for a Jewish friend they are praying to "something" that Jews don't believe in? My Jewish friends lightheartedly "tease" me about it all the time. I ask Him that we (the world) never forget the terrible, terrible acts that were bestowed upon them and others. The reason I kept thinking about this thread is because German authorities persecuted homosexuals and others whose behavior did not match prescribed social norms........Hummmm
It's a shame how many "Christians" on this thread seem to forget history and the lessons it's TRIED to teach us time and time again.... :-(
laura February 25, 2013 at 02:25 am
A Lori C.: No, I do not at all consider it ironic that you pray to Jesus for your Jewish friends. True open-mindedness does not assume that Jews would reject, be offended by or think anything untoward of your gracious offer of help via your prayers. That is my point: We all can use it from whatever well-intended source is willing to offer that help, whether via prayers, good karma or simply open-mindedness Got up on the wrong side of the bed? Nope, just curious why anyone, including Jews, would think it is ironic that a Chrisitian would pray for one of a different religious background. I see nothing unusual about that whatsoever. Makes perfect sense. Given my own multi-religious background and upbringing, I can speak from both sides of that issue quite well. It all boils down to respect for all religions and their constructive intent and for all people, not just those who agree with your beliefs. Cheers!

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